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              面對那個想要獎杯的孩子,美高校董這樣做... The Special " Prize"

              時間: 2021年05月21日 14:10 - 2021年05月21日 14:10
              地點: 上海美高雙語學校
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              面對想要獎杯的孩子,校董這樣做

              I want a speech contest trophy.

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              父母與子女的良好溝通,其重要性是毋庸置疑的共識。而鼓勵孩子主動說出內心的想法,是走向成功溝通的第一步。而就在前不久,上海美高雙語有這樣兩位小同學,他們敲開董事長方正先生辦公室的大門,用稚嫩的聲音勇敢地說出自己的愿望:想要一個演講比賽的獎杯!

              The importance of good communication between parents and children is necessary beyond doubt. Encouraging children to express their inner thoughts is the first step to successful communication. Not long ago, there were two young students from Living Word Shanghai Bilingual School. They knocked on the door of Mr. Edward Fang’s office and bravely expressed their wish in a tender voice: they wanted a trophy for the speech contest!

               

              面對孩子這樣的要求,方先生并沒有第一時間拒絕他們。而是用了一種特別的方式處理。他在回復家長的信中這樣說道:“孩子非常認真地向我表達了他想得到獎杯的意愿,他的優異表現也給我留下了深刻的印象?;趯⒆拥墓膭?,也基于對其他孩子公平公正的原則,我想用泥塑手辦代替獎杯贈與。但是希望孩子做到一件事:請他準備一個演講,題目是“愛的家庭”,請他“五一”后來我辦公室,在我面前完成這個演講,希望他以更好的表現和自己的實力來贏得這個他非??释摹劚?!

              In the face of such a request, Mr. Fang did not refuse them. It was dealt with in a special way. "The child has expressed to me very seriously their desire to win the trophy and his outstanding performance has impressed me," he said in a letter to the child’s parents. “Based on encouragement to children and on the principle of fairness and fairness to other children, I replaced the trophy with handmade clay model. But I hoped that the child can do one thing: prepare a speech, entitled "Family of Love". I asked him to finish the speech in front of me in my office after May 1st holiday, and hope he can win the "trophy" he desperately desires with better performance and his own strength.

               

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              通過這件事情,我們希望能夠給予勇于說出自己想法的同學正向的鼓勵,讓孩子在未來的學習生活過程當中能繼續保持。而作為家長和學校來說,我們應對孩子的想法給以充分的尊重,除了共情,還是共情。

              Through this event, we hope to be able to give positive encouragement to students who have the courage to express their own ideas, so that children can continue to maintain their self-confidence in the process of learning and life in the future. As schools officials and parents ourselves, we should give full respect to children's ideas, in addition to empathy.

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              另一方面,當孩子在提出一些看似不合理的要求時,我們妥協or拒絕?各位家長們,你要知道:拒絕孩子,是門藝術。被冷酷或者暴力拒絕的孩子,他們的在潛意識會形成這樣的認知:我不夠好,我不配得到。所以我們可以嘗試用“可以”來代替“不”,就會更巧妙。對于那些不容易滿足的要求,家長可以跟孩子好好講道理,比如,自己想要的東西需要靠自己努力去爭取。這樣孩子會因為得到尊重而感到很愉快。

              On the other hand, when the child is making some seemingly unreasonable demands, should we compromise or refuse? Parents, you should know: rejecting children is an art. Children who are rejected by cold or violent will subconsciously form the perception that “I am not good enough” and “I am not worthy of it”. So we can try to replace "can" instead of "no", and it will be more ingenious. For those requirements that are not easy to meet, parents can try to reason with their children, for example, they need to work for what they want. So the child will be happy with respect shown to them.


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              德育是學校教育之本,也是學校工作的靈魂。對于國際化學校來說,德育工作既是挑戰也是機遇。方正先生此次舉措無疑給所有家長做了一個很好的德育榜樣,美高也希望有越來越多這樣的同學涌現,在校期間學生能積極思考、勇于提問、敢于犯錯。培養他們獨立人格和品性。同時也提倡家長對學生的個性要給予充分的尊重和肯定。

              Moral education is the foundation of school education and the soul of school work. For international schools, moral education is both a challenge and an opportunity. Mr. Fang’s move undoubtedly sets a good moral example for all parents. Living Word also hopes that more and more such students will emerge. During the school period, students can think actively, have the courage to ask questions and dare to make mistakes. They can use the time to cultivate their independent personality and character. At the same time, parents should give full respect and affirmation to students' personality.

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